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“Turn to him the other also”

Matthew 5:39
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If someone slaps you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also. (Matthew 5:39 BSB)

What it sounds like today

Pure passivity: absorb abuse, be a doormat.

The cultural key

The detail is the right cheek. The left hand was reserved for unclean tasks, so a blow to the right cheek from a right-handed striker is a backhand, the gesture a superior used on an inferior: master to slave, Roman to subject. An insult of status, not a fistfight. Turning the left cheek makes the backhand impossible; to strike again the aggressor must use the forehand blow of an equal. (This reading, popularized by Walter Wink, is compelling but debated; some scholars read the verse as radical non-resistance, plain and simple.)

Recovered meaning

Neither hit back nor cower: refuse the insult's terms. The striker must either treat you as an equal or stop. It is a third way that reclaims dignity without violence.

Parallels: Luke 6:29
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